Hello Again. I’m back and ready to write.
Yes, it’s been a week since I last wrote to you.
After my beloved dog son, Nitro, unexpectedly passed away, I lost all of my words. Sincerely, I did.
During this time, I learned something new about myself.
I can easily write pages after pages of copy when I’m happy….angry….sad….tired….resentful….or basically unconscious.
But, I cannot find a single word when I am grieving over a life that I loved so dearly.
As I revealed in one of my posts under the category – An Introduction: Biographical Background, I took the best writing class in the Fall of 2013 at RICE University. My professor taught a technique to overcome the dreaded curse of an author – ‘writer’s block’.
After that class, I never had a shortage of written thoughts…
…until the day my dog died.
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So it’s 2:45 am.
Without an explanation, I woke up and wanted to write.
I figured that was a really good sign, and I shouldn’t postpone that notion until the morning.
So here I am.
Didn’t even have a picture for this post. So how do you like the photo I just took of my favorite ink stamp?
There was a lesson to be learned during this week of reflection and non-writing.
I wasn’t just grieving for a pet. I deeply felt the loss of a beautiful segment of my life. Nitro’s presence was intertwined with the youth of my sons. Good times at the lake house. And he was a part of every major milestone for the past 15 years.
Nitro and my husband had a most special bond. A mutual admiration that proved that ole’ cliché – A dog is truly a man’s best friend.
Nitro was a constant in my daily routine. While I was cooking dinner at night or sorting my laundry, he was there watching to make sure I was doing everything right.
And how many countless hours did we spend tethered together while taking a lovely walk around the lake?
Simply, Nitro embodied the good things in life.
Love. Loyalty. Laughter.
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Okay. I’ll return on Monday, June 29, with –
Buying Big and Beautiful on a Budget.
I just bought something super fantastic (Waterford crystal) deeply discounted, and I’ll include that purchase in my post on Monday.
And you know this for sure – if something works well in my life, I am going to share with you!
I would normally write an inspirational piece for Friday – but my family is coming in town for a visit.
Thank you for reading even when I wasn’t posting new stuff.
Talk to you on Monday…
with more of My Written Thoughts.
